CARMARTHENSHIRE’S Registration Service pulled out the stops to help a Newcastle Emlyn couple become the first to form a civil partnership as man and woman in the UK, just after the clock striked midnight on New Year’s Eve.
New legislation came in to force on December 31 which allow opposite sex couples to be recognised as civil partners for the first time in the UK.
Same sex couples have been able to form civil partnerships since 2004, but following a lengthy campaign the UK Parliament passed law last year to extend that right to couples of the opposite sex.
It means all couples can now enter a legally recognised partnership, as an alternative to marriage.
Jake Rayson and Emma Wilson had been eagerly waiting the change in legislation.
They were one of the first in the UK to give notice of opposite sex civil partnership earlier last month and chose the Carmarthenshire Register Office at The Old School, Parc Myrddin, in Carmarthen to hold their ceremony.
It is believed they were the first in Wales – possibly the UK – to form a partnership at two minutes past midnight on New Year’s Eve, at the exact time they sign the schedule to make their partnership binding in the eyes of the law.
Carmarthenshire County Council’s registration services team was keen to help make the couple’s dreams come true.
Several staff had agreeded to work overnight during the Christmas and New Year festivities to host the ceremony.
Speaking before the ceremony Cllr David Jenkins, Executive Board Member for registration services, said: “It would be an honour for Carmarthenshire Registration Services to be the first to host this landmark event, and a delight to help Jake and Emma fulfil their dreams.
“I’m grateful to the registration team, and everyone else, who is working to make this possible for the couple.
“Whilst we hope they will become the first in the UK to form an opposite sex civil partnership in the early hours of New Year’s Eve, the most important thing is that they are able to commit themselves to one another in a way that is special and important to them. I’d like, on behalf of Carmarthenshire County Council, to congratulate them and wish them well for their future together.”
Jake and Emma met in London, moving to Carmarthenshire for a change of lifestyle in 2015 with their first child Archie, shortly before welcoming their second child Madoc.
They say a civil partnership allows them the freedom to choose an alternative to marriage which they view as unequal and patriarchal.
“We don’t believe in the religious and patriarchal structures that underpin matrimony,” said Jake. “We also object to the historical practice of unequal marriage vows, but want our children to have the same legal rights as the children of a married couple.”
The couple are planning a simple ceremony at the registration office joined by their sons and two friends as witnesses.
“We want to be part of an historic moment and hopefully be the first to form an opposite sex civil partnership in the UK on New Year’s Eve,” said Emma. “It’s important to us for many reasons, and it will be a special way to commit to each other and celebrate.”
Carmarthenshire County Council is grateful for the help of the General Register Office which has supported the registration team and the couple to plan for the event.
For more information about civil partnerships, as well as marriages, birth and death registrations, venues, and more, visit www.carmarthenshire.gov.wales
Eggstra special Easter treat for Carmarthenshire children
VULNERABLE children and children of critical workers in Carmarthenshire will be getting an eggstra special Easter treat this year.
Kind donations of chocolate eggs and hot cross buns are being delivered to all the childcare hubs and food hubs in the county.
The childcare hubs have been set up to look after the children of critical workers and to support vulnerable children during the coronavirus pandemic.
A number of food hubs have also been set up by the council across the county to help families in need. Children who are entitled to free school meals also receive food supplies to feed the whole family.
Now thanks to the generosity of local businesses and organisations, the children and staff are guaranteed a very ‘hoppy’ Easter.
Food wholesaler Bookers in Carmarthen have given 50 boxes of Cadbury’s crème eggs to share out between the food hubs for children receiving free school meals – that’s a total of 1,968 eggs!
And the Co-op stores in Ammanford and Burry Port, Morrisons in Llanelli, Carmarthen and Llanelli Rotary Clubs, and Llandeilo Town Council have donated Easter eggs to give out to all the children attending the care hubs.
Morrisons in Carmarthen are also providing Easter eggs for all the staff working in the hubs on Good Friday; and Carmarthen-based Hafod Bakery will also be making a special delivery of hot cross buns and loaves of bread.
Executive Board Member for Education and Children’s Services Cllr Glynog Davies said: “I would like to thank everyone involved for their generosity, both the children and staff will be delighted.
“It is particularly important at this difficult time that we remain positive and take joy in all that we can. These Easter eggs will put a big smile on all the children’s faces, and it also shows how much we appreciate the hard work of all the staff.
“This is an excellent example of what we are trying to achieve as part of our SirGâredig campaign – the incredible community spirit and kindness that is taking place throughout Carmarthenshire during the pandemic.
“It is at times like these that we see the good in people, and I am proud of the people of Carmarthenshire for the support and kindness they are showing one another in these challenging times.”
Thanks also to Morrisons in Carmarthen for delivering Easter eggs to our bin collection crews at the Cillefwr depot today (Thursday, April 9), they were very happy indeed!
If you have an act of kindness you would like to share, please tweet us @CarmsCouncil using the hashtag #SirGaredig or post on our Facebook page @CarmarthenshireCC
Supporting vulnerable children and their families
SUPPORT for vulnerable children and their families is continuing during the coronavirus crisis.
Staff from Education and Children’s Services are continuing to offer wellbeing support as well as respite to families that need it.
With schools closed, headteachers and staff at specialist settings are making regular contact to make sure children are receiving the support they need and that the family is coping.
Other families with children that require individual support have been contacted directly by one of the council’s family liaison officers to find out what support is needed and how best it can be delivered, either through one of the childcare hubs, or through alternative arrangements.
Some pupils who need additional support are having their needs met through the childcare hubs and the feedback from parents is that it is working well.
Although schools are closed, Area 43, the school-based counselling service can still be accessed by children and young people from Year 5 upwards. Staff are available to provide information, support and counselling remotely; either online, by telephone or text and through its social media pages. Visit Area43.co.uk for more details.
Executive Board Member for Education and Children’s Services Cllr Glynog Davies said: “Respite and support services are continuing for vulnerable children, and will continue to do so as long as staff remain well, and families want and need it.
“It is more important than ever that we have this support in place for families, and it is also important that our young people can still access the counselling service whilst the schools are closed. This is a very difficult and uncertain time for everyone, and this type of support is essential.
“I am also very pleased to receive positive feedback from parents of children with additional learning needs that are using the hubs.”
If you have any concerns about a child or young person, please get in touch by emailing CRTChildren@carmarthenshire.gov.uk or by calling 01554 742322. If a problem occurs out of office hours that cannot wait, please call 0300 333 2222.
More information and support for parents can be found at newsroom.carmarthenshire.gov.wales/coronavirus
Lottery win for local neighbours
Two people in Ferryside are celebrating today after winning £1,000 each thanks to their lucky postcode.
The neighbours netted the windfall when SA17 5YP was announced as a Daily Prize winner with People’s Postcode Lottery on Wednesday 8th April 2020.
People’s Postcode Lottery ambassador Judie McCourt sent her well-wishes to the winners. She said: “Congratulations to our winners! What a great surprise for them, I hope they enjoy their winnings.”
A minimum of 32% of ticket sales goes directly to charities and players of People’s Postcode Lottery have raised over £500 million to date for thousands of good causes in Britain and beyond.
This draw was promoted by Maggie’s which has received over £16.1 million in funding from the players of People’s Postcode Lottery. Maggie’s runs a network of cancer support centres across the country. These centres bring people together to help combat the isolation and distress that often accompanies a cancer diagnosis.
Many good causes close to the winners have also benefitted from players’ support, and local charities can next apply for funding in August.
For more information on People’s Postcode Lottery, please visit www.postcodelottery.co.uk or Facebook and Twitter.
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